As I started to go on my own journey and discover more things and have conversations with people in my community, I realized that there were massive gaps, and it was also quite dangerous. So that's kind of how I fell into what I do today.

Tamil songs act as a portal into an alternative universe and cage in images of sexuality often informed by the male gaze. However, the question remains: who do these images leave out?

Shame follows us into public, personal, and intimate spheres, drawing borders around us from the inside out. In the absence of consent culture, shame manipulates notions of intimacy and pleasure, and our minds continuously berate us with questions such as: "What if they see me on this app?"