The telling of these stories, the recognition of queer people and their humanity, is the only way out for our community to adequately support all of our members – it is the only way out for all of us.

This is telling of what is collectively valued. It is also sad – these values that are being taught and passed down, the inevitable urge to give up the good things in life, the possibility of living a good, content life, in order to save face and appear to be happy and “respectable.”

I want to believe that, especially in a collectivist community like our own, sympathy and kindness are easily found and those of us who are chronically ill do not have to worry or wonder if their bodies will be accepted and loved.

Masturbation is not defined by one singular act, nor is it limited to a pre-defined set of activities. Instead, what matters the most is what works for you. And this looks different for everyone.

Fitness progress is often showcased in an extremely linear way online. However, between the consistency of working out are setbacks, disappointments, and multiple standstill moments.

For some, boundaries are stretched thin and for others, the boundaries are re-negotiated while learning more about themselves.